I really can't see how you can say I'm the one judging - I stated facts gathered from your many blogs. Dinner...maybe for your wife and kids, but for you - I have better things to do. Blogging with you further after this is the last thing on my mind.
Yes killing yourself is selfish, however, to get to that point, there must be something really wrong. You stated many things about this young man in judgement - perhaps you should have had him over for dinner!!! I hardly think someone reading your blog about being selfish is going to stop them - if they are going to take their life then there was something more deeply wrong than being selfish.
You do seem very angry - you strike out at everyone who answers one of your blogs with a different opinion. Opinions are just that - an opinion. Grow up - I feel deeply saddened for your family because if you are this way on a blog, I can only imagine - as well as everyone else reading this - what you are like in person!